I don't know how many of you are out there...

But today, I need prayers... I will tell all tomorrow... but fornow... please pray that God will protect me in this time of hardship and the horrible things to come....

Thanks...

You are in my prayers no matter what the situation, good or bad, the good lord will see you through it !!!! Keep your head up !!!!

Ummmmm Sara..... Whats up?? Now you got us worried.....

I'll tell you all on Friday. Right now, I can't say anything until it's over. It's not really really bad. But it's some stuff that just got out of hand.

Well, you will be in mine for sure.

Well.... *sighs* When I have enough energy, I'll tell all.. (99% of me says tell all tomorrow... so I will)

But I will say that it is over.... and it will be taken care of.... very well.... I just wish I had a punching bad to beat the snot out of....

In other news... I got new shoes..... I feel so much better after buying something.... why is that????

So, Tuesday I came in and did my normal thing, get the room ready for the Tigers and make it smell nice for the mothers (they complain constantly about the smell... and so do I!) The class went better then expected! I was so proud of them! Especially Alex, one of the few 3 year old girls that go there. I get called down after helping James in his class with James to go into Master Morris' office. Mr. Stuart said... let me try to reinact it...
"This is a new month, and we need to start taking out the garbage in this place!"
Meaning me... They wanted me to ditch my family, my school work... all for the TKD school. He said that I needed to start working out 2 days a week, which I could do... but then I had to come in once a week to make calls (that I did not have time for), and no excuse can get me out of it. And quote "Nor can your mother come and rescue every single time." He insulted me at least a half dozen times to my face in front of James. James just was quiet and listened to him speak out of his butt.

I called my dad and told him what happened and that he needed to set up a time to discuss this matter with Mr. Stuart. My dad comes in and tries to set it up. But Mr. Stuart wants to duke it out right then and there. He accused me of lying to them, saying that my dislocated shoulder was an excuse of getting out of class and that it was all a lie. My dad said that he was there when it happened (and he was. He saved me from getting glass in my arm). And Mr. Stuart said quote "Don't try to change the story." He went on to say that I was very easy to replace because quote "There are plenty of people chomping at the bit to get her job!" He insulted my mother in front of my father and I, he insulted me! My father walked out as I was talking to one of the dads there telling him what happend (James' dad the coolest guy ever!!!)

Today, I walk in, knowing it's my last day teaching. My mom came just to make sure I would be alright. I go up stairs and I run downstairs to go to the bathroom. I get called by Mr. Stuart and I motion for my mom to come over to see what's up. He lied to my face, telling me that dad said he would call on Wednesday to set up a time, and if he didn't call that meant that I wouldn't be back. And since I was here, I could teach the 345 class, but the 6pm class was taken care of and I can be a quote "Good sport about it and help out, but I wasn't aloud to talk to any of the kids." No eye contact... not once, I just stood there looking at him thinking mean names in my head like "Doody head..... Stupidhead..... Football head...." (seriously nothing eviler then that). He also got scared when I wouldn't reply to his "Okays". When my mom asked for some eye contact he said in a very, rude, and nasty voice "I'm the one giving the orders here!!!" And my mother said "This is her last day here, let her teach the class." He said No adn that I shouldn't even teach the 345 class. So my mom siad Okay! Let's say goodbye to the kids. He ordered me not to go upstairs... but I did anyway (I had my stuff there.. and some of it I still have there...) I gave a couple kids some hugs and walked outside. Mrs. Harrison, a lady I babysit for drove up and I walked out to her and really tried to smile and said "I'm not teaching here anymore." My mom asked her to hand out the easter eggs fileld with candy she and I stuffed for them that day. Mrs. Harrison said she'd call me tomorrow (Friday) so I could tell her what happened.

The Lord has shut this door on me and is going to open another one... but let me tell you this... I feel like I have just lost a custody battle over my own children. I loved those kids with all my heart. I Would take a bullet for each and every one of those children... and to lose them to someone that evil and decietful is unimaginable to me.

I am, depressed. I've been eating nasty food which I will regret tomorrow! Lol.

Right now I want to cry. But the Lord knows... the Lord will deal with them.... He knows I am hurting and will make sure he deals with the Stuarts personally.....

There's more to it in detail... but I am so depressed and stressed for memory that I can't remember all of it.

The thing that makes this even worse, is it's my word against his... and he lies to make himself look like the good guy.... so who do you think they are going to believe? Not me....

whooooaaaaaa..... you are such a nice person. Your parents must be too.
I used to be until about three years ago... Before then i would have done as you did.. but knowing only what you told me just now i would have raised holy heck and brought the roof down on that guy's head and then i would have been telling EVERYONE what happened...
but i dont know all of what happened. Whats done is done now and i know EXACTLY how you feel when you lose "custody" of a kid.... its easy to get attached to children. i used to work in a daycare but left for a better paying, but those people were nasty rude too, they also didnt want to give me my pay check until i threatened them (that was when i first started to get a mean streak in me)

i also know how you feel about being to stressed to give the details. i'm pretty such just what you typed up there was hard for you to do.. i've been there myself far too many times.....
What facility is this anyway? what county/city? you dont have to tell me if you dont want to. we do live pretty close together and knowing there is a nasty man in charge of children i will probably end up starting something... soo maybe you shouldnt tell me.... just curious if this place is in Tallahassee or Jefferson.. i hate jefferson with a passion. i wish i had never lived there because i never knew what "corrupt" meant until i went to that high school...

anyway i'm sorry for your troubles and i said a prayer for you. this chapter is over but you have learned something from it i'm sure and maybe next time you can use what you learned and help someone else.
You never know how these things work out.

DumDog wrote:

whooooaaaaaa..... you are such a nice person. Your parents must be too.
I used to be until about three years ago... Before then i would have done as you did.. but knowing only what you told me just now i would have raised holy heck and brought the roof down on that guy's head and then i would have been telling EVERYONE what happened...
but i dont know all of what happened. Whats done is done now and i know EXACTLY how you feel when you lose "custody" of a kid.... its easy to get attached to children. i used to work in a daycare but left for a better paying, but those people were nasty rude too, they also didnt want to give me my pay check until i threatened them (that was when i first started to get a mean streak in me)

i also know how you feel about being to stressed to give the details. i'm pretty such just what you typed up there was hard for you to do.. i've been there myself far too many times.....
What facility is this anyway? what county/city? you dont have to tell me if you dont want to. we do live pretty close together and knowing there is a nasty man in charge of children i will probably end up starting something... soo maybe you shouldnt tell me.... just curious if this place is in Tallahassee or Jefferson.. i hate jefferson with a passion. i wish i had never lived there because i never knew what "corrupt" meant until i went to that high school...

anyway i'm sorry for your troubles and i said a prayer for you. this chapter is over but you have learned something from it i'm sure and maybe next time you can use what you learned and help someone else.
You never know how these things work out.

Thanks a ton.

This is in Tallahassee. But the guy is from Arkansas. One of the moms was really ticked at him when I told her what happened. She said I was way too sweet as well lol. I guess that's just me.

what kind of school is this? i mean... "Take out the garbage"? meaning for you to ditch your personal life and what not. i dont really understand.
the guy sounds like a real jerk and has no right to treat anyone that way.

DumDog wrote:

what kind of school is this? i mean... "Take out the garbage"? meaning for you to ditch your personal life and what not. i dont really understand.
the guy sounds like a real jerk and has no right to treat anyone that way.

It's a martial arts school. It's supposed to be "The best in Tallahassee" but since he started working there. I reccomend going someplace else.

oh well no wonder he was such a jerk off.
probably ex military too (no offense to anyone) that or he is a super cop wannabe.... cant stand guys that are egotistical power trips constantly.
I want my boys to learn karate when they're older, but...... not with someone like that.

DumDog wrote:

oh well no wonder he was such a jerk off.
probably ex military too (no offense to anyone) that or he is a super cop wannabe.... cant stand guys that are egotistical power trips constantly.
I want my boys to learn karate when they're older, but...... not with someone like that.

I doubt he even went to college the way he was acting around me.

I'm going to see if I can start my own TKD school. You're kids can come and learn with me!

i might take lessons too lol i've always wanted to learn something like that... i'm kinda on the short side, so punching someone may not work (not enough reach) but i can dang sure kick the snot out of someone!